Jayley Woo’s twin sister Hayley: Aloysius Pang was saving up to propose in a few years’ time


Tanya Ong | January 24, 08:46 am


Tributes have been pouring in since news of Aloysius Pang’s death broke.

Tributes pour in for Aloysius Pang from fellow artistes & friends

Jayley Woo’s eulogy

This includes one particularly heartbreaking eulogy from local actress Jayley Woo, who has revealed herself to be Pang’s girlfriend.

The duo never confirmed their relationship publicly until Woo did overnight, but a series of posts alluded to a relationship that had gone on for years.

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至我最亲爱的你, 8月24号 是你的生日 1月4号 是我们一个特别的日子 1月24号 你一句话也没交代 就离开了我 只留下你冷清清 硬邦邦的手 为什么 那么巧 我最爱的号码是 4号 为什么 你毫不留情的丢下我一个 为什么 你舍得离开这世界 为什么 你要这样对我 这一生没有福气当你的妻子 我们来生一定要当夫妻 我爱你 我真的很爱很爱你 谢谢你这几年来的照顾 永远都爱着你 请你一路走好 多多发梦来找我 懂吗 还有 我这一辈子还是不会原谅你的 You'll always be a part of me, my man. 我们来生见, till death do us apart baby boy. ❤️ #我的世界没了 #jaysiusonthephonewithaloyley

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In an Instagram story, Woo even mentioned that the two had planned to announce their relationship after they were married:

Screenshot via Jayley Woo’s Instastories

“My dearest friends from the media,

I will not be responding to any of your questions.

Please let me keep these last memories I have with him. Please be understanding. What I can say is we only planned to go public when we got married.

That is all.

Thank you everyone.”

Pang intended to propose in a few years

In another tribute from Hayley Woo, Jayley’s twin sister, we would learn another heart-wrenching piece of information: Pang intended to propose to Jayley once he had saved up enough money.

Hayley wrote in an Instagram post and tribute that Pang was hoping to propose to Jayley by the time he turned 31, in roughly two to three years’ time.

According to Hayley, Pang shared this with her on Dec. 27, 2018, after celebrating Jayley’s birthday.

This is what her post said (translated from Chinese):

“Dec. 27, 2018

Thank you for spending my sister’s birthday with her.

Thank you for thoughtfully arranging an entire day of activities.

After we had dinner and drinks, my sister went to sleep. It was just both of us, having a heart-to-heart talk for the first time. We spoke for quite a long while, and you told me you’re working hard to earn money. You wanted to marry my sister when you reached 31 years old.

I don’t have the privilege of having you as my brother-in-law for this life.

Rest in peace. May you meet Jayley in her dreams, where you can tell her all the words you never got to say before you left.”


Here’s Hayley’s Instagram post:

Related stories:

Aloysius Pang’s family appeals for space to mourn loss

Mediacorp: Aloysius Pang will be remembered for “sincere, unaffected earnestness & professionalism”

Aloysius Pang’s girlfriend: ‘I’m not lucky enough to be your wife in this life’


Top photo from @jiaqiwoo’s Instagram page

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