Facebook confessions pages like NUSWhispers have pretty much always been a convenient go-to outlets for people who want to air their views publicly under the protection of anonymity.

Most of these are fairly harmless, but once in awhile, posts like the one we're about to show you betray deep-rooted (and mostly flawed) biases, and in some cases, misogyny too.

On Sunday, a male anonymous contributor sent the following opinion to the page — in short labelling "empowered modern day women" as "selfish" for engaging in promiscuous behaviour, and then going on to not only dish out dirt on his current girlfriend, but also to call her a "Sarong Party Girl" (a derogatory term for women who date white men exclusively) because she once dated a Caucasian.

This is his post:

In case you can't see it, here's a screenshot of the text:

He even has the gall to go on to give other men advice about dating girls like his girlfriend, exhorting them to wait till "she has proven herself" before treating her "like a princess".

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This did not go down too well with his audience, many of who called him out for his "saltiness" (which, ironically, means a combination a of sour grapes and bitterness):

But one of the best comments calls out the hypocrisy of his attitude:

"So who she dated before and who she slept with before you is killing you? Dating Caucasian is SPG?

U still living in the 70s or what?

Gosh I thought you guys are Millennials..

Infidelity is a big word to use kiddo. Did she do it to you when you are together? Or you mean her past?

Tell me, do guys think about how much it would hurt the girl and her future before asking her for sex? Or do guys think about saving themselves for like future wife, so the future wife won't be tormented thinking about how the guy had sex with ex-gf or dated "Ang Mo girls" (if u can manage to hitch one)

Or are u feeling humiliated because she is your first gf and your ego can't stand her being "more experienced" than you?"

Post triggered by another confession on "friends with benefits"

The opinion appears to have been contributed in response to another post from another guy who, despite loving his girlfriend very much, has difficulty accepting that she once had two friends with benefits.

As usual, a screenshot, because we're helpful like that:

Just a dude trying to get some advice from the community.

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And if you're still interested, another girl who once had friends with benefits contributed her perspective and experience to this discussion, offering her experience on how it affected her relationship.

The post was taken down from the Facebook page, but here's a screenshot of the text:

Sad, but perhaps some slightly more authoritative-sounding advice.

 

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