In a blog post that was taken down as quickly as it went viral, a girl who is currently studying in the National University of Singapore shared her experience of how a guy from her freshmen orientation camp messaged her out of the blue and "begged" for sex.
In her own words: "Currently he’s Year 3, just like me. In 2014 we both attended Arts O Week as freshies and were in the same OG. We never conversed and I never saw him again afterwards."
She said he started to ask her probing questions concerning her sex life and she answered them initially because she thought "he had girl problems or something so he wanted a girl’s advice" or that "he was struggling with some girl issue, like maybe he lost his virginity and felt super guilty about it or something."
The guy hemmed and hawed for a while and then asked her for sex.
Here's the conversation they had on WhatsApp, be prepared for quite a few screenshots:
We skip some hemming.
Skipped more hawing.
So the guy approached this girl based on her "social media posts". Whut?
He claims that this conversation was to learn how to sexually please girls. Right.
Then he reveals that he's been single because he held interest for the girl. Whom he did not speak to. For two years.
Hold on to your hats, here comes the indecent proposal:
Guy goes full on creeper mode describing how he felt when he saw her at camp. Perhaps in his head he thought it was a romantic gesture to profess that she caught his eye? Nope. Just nope.
Any notion that it was a romantic gesture is thrown out the window in the next few lines:
She ended off the conversation with some sound advice for the guy:
Guys, if you find a girl attractive, get to know her better before asking her out on a date.
Randomly messaging a girl asking for sex will most likely end up in failure, onto the Internet, and possibly charges for harassment.
Update at July 29 2:40pm: The blog post is back up but with names censored and the girl in question explained that she took it down initially for fear of doing something illegal. She also added this:
Additionally I also found out that he used to harass someone I know, who was also from the same OG. She had to block him on every platform. The worst part is that last year he was a councillor for my faculty’s FOC, but he got a little smarter and harassed (via FB message) multiple female freshies and seniors from other OGs instead. Joining a camp to prey on vulnerable girls 3 years younger is despicable.
Nevertheless, to all the people riding on the FOC-hate wave, this creep is definitely not representative of the university, its students, its camps, or its culture. Please lah every society/community/human conglomerate has creeps like him. He was like that since he was a freshie ok.
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