Through her baby steps on social media, Josephine Teo is helping us understand marriage and parenthood better

She seems to be forging a new, personal path of politics that we don't really mind.

Jeanette Tan| February 19, 05:24 PM

Senior Minister of State Josephine Teo is well and truly on the baby offensive on Facebook.

And oddly enough, instead of balking or being turned off, people seem to be appreciating her attempts to encourage the having of more babies.

We'll explain.

Teo was after the 2015 General Election appointed the successor of Minister for Culture, Community and Youth Grace Fu, taking on the portfolio of Senior Minister of State in the Prime Minister's Office, in the National Population and Talent Division. She also gave up her Finance portfolio for Foreign Affairs, on top of her existing Transport role.

Over the past two years (2014, 2015), Teo published a total of two Facebook notes. In the past two months, Teo put up six —

On New Year's Day, she wrote a note about babies, and welcoming the first newborns of the year, as is the tradition in Singapore. Not much for us to gain, apart from the fact that she has twin girls who are now 16 (well hey!) and a son.

Her second one was admittedly quite a government-sounding piece that we aren't sure how many might have read — our guess is, most likely, people glanced at the title and went "TL;DR":

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TO SCHOOL!#BackToSchool! It’s the first day of school! I dropped by #PCFSparkletots at Blk 257 Bishan Street 22...

Posted by Josephine Teo on Sunday, 3 January 2016

Yet, if you actually did take the time to read it, you'd notice the relevance of the points she highlighted —

1. giving fathers a better chance at playing a more active role in child-raising,

2. increasing the number and quality of childcare facilities so parents can work while ensuring their children are well looked-after, and

3. improving societal support (from nurturing a culture of support to employers' family-friendly practices).

All things that people often complain about when asked about having children.

In her third note about housing, she shared her own experience of the homes she lived in when starting a family, as well as where she grew up:

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by Josephine Teo on Wednesday, 6 January 2016

Here, we learned that she started off in a rental flat, then moved in with her grandfather above a shop, followed by a couple more HDB flats before moving in as a newlywed into a BTO flat that they couldn't afford professional renovation for.

She did end up plugging the various government initiatives available to support early parenthood, as she would have to inevitably, but hey — she didn't have to open up about her past, but she did, and it was nice.

A couple of weeks later, she posted this:

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YEARS AND COUNTINGToday is my wedding anniversary. Though my husband is away for work, I'd still like to thank him...

Posted by Josephine Teo on Sunday, 17 January 2016

Again, not a necessary move, but a pretty effective one — calculated or sincere, people were moved. And her reflection reminded us that politicians are humans too, with families and private lives, which in her case is laid quite bare for the public to see and judge.

In her next note in early February, Teo focused on her quest to increase support for dads taking paternity leave (did you know that the government pays for two weeks of it?!):

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by Josephine Teo on Friday, 5 February 2016

What we learned this time: she and her husband formed a dual-income family, and had a helper as well as both sides of parents to assist with care for her children.

Of course, on Valentine's Day, Teo had to strike — her note was about marriage and getting married, touching on the points of facets of a quality marriage, the arguments that contrary to what your judgey relatives might think, weddings don't have to be expensive and women don't always need to marry "up" or people of the same race.

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MY #VALENTINE![Note: This is apparently an online "myth" circulating since 2010. But, how nice a story for...

Posted by Josephine Teo on Saturday, 13 February 2016

Teo factoid of the day: she's hip enough to call her husband her "ex-boyfriend", and they used to go cycling together in hipster places like an ulu part of China. Also, she's not afraid to show unfashionable photos of herself wearing too-baggy denim jackets and flat hair 8)

This culminates in Thursday's note (she really has been writing a lot eh), where she encourages married couples not to wait too long to have children:

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by Josephine Teo on Thursday, 18 February 2016

And TIL (today I learned) from the senior minister of state that pre-kids, she felt like she didn't need kids — hers and her husband's careers were flourishing, they enjoyed travelling, and contemplated taking overseas positions and further studies. We were also extremely impressed with the way she successfully paid that ongoing fertility campaign a compliment:

"I spotted some thought-provoking advertisements by I Love Children Singapore and it really drove home the point that conception may not always come so easily."

Thought-provoking, indeed.

Screenshot from ILoveChildren.sg Screenshot from ILoveChildren.sg

Image from ILoveChildren.sg's Facebook page Image from ILoveChildren.sg's Facebook page

Different strokes for different folks, we suppose.

But we do like the direction Teo is taking in politics — paving the way for a more personable, accessible and relatable government.

It's also cool that in her sharing more and more about her own life, we are learning more and more, beyond just the types of policies Singapore is adopting in order to be more marriage- and parenthood-friendly. More importantly, she may very well play a big part in the mindset change in terms of how Singaporeans view marriage and parenthood.

Moar plz.

Related article:

3 ways Josephine Teo has set the example for female PAP politicians to copy

 

Top photo from Josephine Teo's Facebook page.

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