S’porean guy 5-times girl he met on Tinder with 3 other girls & 1 guy
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There are love stories, there are tragedies, and then there is the epic saga of Chloe Teo and Ashry Owyong Min.
Teo, a social influencer, posted a (very) long account of her experiences with Min on the blogging site Dayre on Dec. 27.
You can read for yourself at this link if you’ve got half an hour to spare.
The post begins with “I got 5-timed”, which hints at the drama that is to follow.
Met on Tinder
Teo first met Min on Tinder about a year ago. Teo, at that time, dated and broke up with another guy. After the break-up, Min contacted Teo again and they began dating.
Min claimed to be serving in the Singapore Armed Forces. He also claimed to have been involved in Special Operations Force missions from time to time.
Things were going well when Min suddenly asked Teo to remove all the posts she had written on Dayre about their relationship, saying he wanted things to be private. Teo agreed.
Then they took a trip to Boracay in the Philippines together. Everything seemed perfect.
“… the setting was so heart warming. I was on this romantic island with the man of my dreams.”
While on the trip, Min took a video of Teo for an Instagram story, which he shared with her.
Believing that Min was ready to take the next step and make their relationship public, Teo shared the video on her own Instagram, along with other photos of Min.
That’s when trouble started.
The other woman
After her Insta stories were posted, Teo received a message from someone claiming to be Min’s girlfriend.
When confronted, Min claimed that this girl was a “sister” and asked Teo to deactivate her Instagram account.
Teo believed him and did so immediately. However, there was a grain of doubt in the back of her mind.
“He held my hands in the plane after knowing I had my account deactivated and told me everything will be fine.
The flight was so Long, I was so tired…. my skin was so burnt, eyes so hot from crying in my 2 hour bus ride to the airport, and yet my mind was running.
Thinking over and over again. Just why, exactly why do I have to hide from his Sister. I’ve got to meet her some time soon.”
Truth came out
Teo reactivated her account and spoke to Min’s “sister”, asking if they could clear the air. Instead, she insisted that she really was Min’s girlfriend.
Teo asked for proof that they were indeed a couple, and received a photo of Min being intimate with another woman.
It turned out that she was on a trip to Japan while Teo and Min were in Boracay.
When confronted, Min claimed that she was an ex, and that she was a “psycho” who was still obsessed with him even though they had broken up.
But meanwhile, Teo was getting lots of messages from other women who claimed they too had dated Min, and he cheated on them.
This is a shoutout to my ex
All in all, Teo was with Min for four months, which the rest of the post describes in detail.
But here’s a quick summary of all the skeevy things Teo claimed that Min has done.
1. Mooched off her financially
“Throughout this 4 months I shared with him, I’ve subconsciously helped him book so many cab rides to and fro “his place” (sometimes it’ll be the girlfriends house lol) and though each trip was a mere $5/6, compiling them altogether made me realise how much money I’ve spent.”
2. Dated several other women while he was dating Teo
“Told me he was with friends playing darts, Nope. He was with his other girlfriend on a date night…. what the hell, after he left my house just that afternoon comforting me because of all the truth i found out about.
Told me he had to go to school but Nope. He went to Suntec for a date night with his other Girlfriend…
Or how he was stuck at school and could only come at 9pm when Nope. He was actually busy spending time with one of his other 3 girls outside.”
3. Dated another man while he was dating Teo
“Even him and I haven’t taken photos like that. Surely you could tell me yourself what you think of their relationship? I confronted Ashry and he told me that they were just good friends… really???”
4. Claimed that he lied about his past involvement in a webcam sex scandal
“Lied about his past w regards to school. Secondary school, expelled for webcam sex scandal…”
5. Hit up a girl on Tinder, who happened to be Teo’s friend, while he was next to Teo
“I BELIEVED HIM EH. And so…. I asked him to sign himself into tinder and he just insisted he forgotten the password blablabla, obviously lying right through his rotten teeth ugh. And this isn’t it, he still dare to look at me after and said “Now believe when I said my account was hacked?”
According to Teo, Min’s “girlfriend” is still with him, even though Teo herself has broken free. Min is apparently trying to sign on full-time with the SAF’s special forces.
She remembers when Min first asked to go out with her.
“Is there a chance I could go out with ya?
I wished I said no. Damn it.”
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Top image from Dayre.
An earlier version of this post stated that Teo stayed with Min for months after she discovered his other alleged relationships is incorrect. It has been amended.