S'pore man granted protection order against wife who sent 'vulgar & degrading' AI pics of him & sister

A man was granted a personal protection order (PPO) against his wife, who sent him fake images of him engaging in sexual activities with his sister.

A family court found that the wife's actions amounted to family violence, according to court documents released on Sep. 9.

The husband alleged that the wife had inflicted emotional or psychological abuse on him by accusing him of having an affair with his sister.

The man presented 90 pages' worth of screenshots which contained not only the messages his wife had sent to him but also explicit images and videos of the husband and sister engaging in sexual acts, generated by AI.

Entire saga resulted from husband sending sister S$65,000

Court documents stated that the wife had an acrimonious relationship with her sister-in-law.

According to the husband, the saga began when he agreed to contribute S$100,000 towards his father's medical bills.

He informed his wife that he had transferred S$65,000 to his sister.

This angered his wife and led to the turn of events.

Magistrate Soh Kian Peng said the wife proceeded to send her husband "hideously offensive and vile messages".

The messages

Court documents included a small excerpt of the text messages which the husband had received from the wife over a period of around four months.

"She got good breast n beautiful f*cking c*** b** for u to insert ur rotten c*ck

I die you happy. Happily can f*ck ur beloved until die

We will go separate.

I HEARD SHE BUY MEDICINE FOR U TO F*CK HER"

The woman also described her sister-in-law using other sexual terms.

The husband was "evidently tormented and distressed" by what the wife had sent to him, according to the magistrate.

"The husband also recounted the physical toll he had suffered: his weight had dropped precipitously."

According to court documents, the wife did not dispute sending these messages and said she used a free application to produce the obscene messages of her husband and his sister.

Wife only stopped sending messages after PPO application

Soh considered that the wife had a high risk of continuing to inflict family violence on her husband.

The magistrate noted that the wife only stopped sending the husband such messages at the end of April 2026.

This coincided with the husband's PPO application at the start of May 2026 and his obtaining an expedited PPO against his wife.

The couple's conflict involving the husband's sister remains unresolved, Soh said.

He said that it was "hardly possible, nor could there be any such expectation that the husband cut off any and all contact with his sister so as to avoid conflict with the wife".

PPO allowed; husband and wife ordered to attend counselling

The magistrate said that the man had proven both requirements for a protective order in the familial context, which were to establish that his wife committed family violence on him and that an order was needed for his protection or personal safety.

The PPO application was allowed, and the couple were ordered to attend marriage counselling.

Soh said that while the wife "had her own grievances and frustration" with her husband, she had an unhealthy way of expressing such negative emotions.

The magistrate also noted that the wife had to be admitted to the Institute of Mental Health twice, and he called for a preliminary assessment report.

This was with the intention of issuing the wife a mandatory treatment order for a possible psychiatric condition.